A few days after the party, one of my friends who had just met my girlfriend sent her a message on Facebook. He wanted to know if she wanted to go out with him sometime. She never responded to him, and I was understandably upset with him about this. I felt like I was pretty clear about our relationship status when I introduced her as "my girlfriend." I feel like I used pretty obvious language there, right?
The next time I saw this guy around, when I wasn't acting like I was happy to see him, he pulled me aside and asked me if something was up and if I was mad at him about something.
This is an open letter to him in response to the situation: