Pastor Anselm has a contrary opinion. See the reasons he give below:
"It is how I have chosen to do it. I have decided to
move on. I found out that even 10 years will not be enough to forget my
late wife. 20 years still will not be enough to forget my late wife. The
time anybody remarries has nothing to do with your former partner. And
that's one thing people fail to understand. We were married for many
years and suddenly I was left alone. It's about many things, companionship.
