Husband & Wife: True Love Can Bring That Desired Change

With the realization that there are many troubles in families today, on Saturdays we'll be sharing stuffs that could help couples enjoy their marriage or restore bliss in homes where it is missing: Change!

Change is measured by its impact on those who are connected to it. Change happens in the heart before it is declared by our works. Change changes the speed of time. Let us start from the biggest and perhaps the most important mistake: the reason you decided to get married! Unfortunately, many people marry for all the wrong reasons and that is why many marriages end up in divorce.

5 forbidden types of love you are likely to have in your lifetime

It's not about loose morals or a weak mind, it's just that you may have been on the single market for too long and have a tendency of going into these types of taboo relationships.

Julia Austin of Madame Noire lists these kinds of forbidden love singles are likely to engage in:

Real reason he split with Lindsey Vonn revealed

After Tiger Woods and girlfriend split over a week ago, Lindsey Vonn posted on Facebook explaining that ''both lead incredibly hectic lives that force us to spend a majority of our time apart.''

But latest reports claim the former Golf champion may have relapsed in his sex addiction hence cheated on Lindsey.

My Husband Is No Longer Giving Me Good S*x

I have been married for five years and have two boys. I am still the way I was before child-bearing. My shape and slim looks are still intact and many people who don’t know still see me as a hot spinster and I always tell the guys that I’m happily married and they should stay off.

60% of readers believe it is important for every woman to get married

A Olokunbolab Blessing reader, Brenda, shared a problem on Morning Teaser about the pressure being put on her by her family to get married against her wishes.

Brenda who is 39-years-old, is a career woman who has all it takes to settle down but she has been unlucky in love and as such, has made up her mind that she will remain single all her life.

Part of her letter reads:

My Husband Is Not Taking Care Of Me In The Bedroom

My husband is in his mid 50s and I am 48. It’s over three years since we made love and I’ve suggested that he sees a specialist but he won’t, he shrugs that the specialist will only say that at our age, that type of thing stops.

I know that s*x is an important issue in marriage. I find myself being flippant and sarcastic with him and this leads to arguments. My husband said that if s*x meant that much to me, I should have an affair if I could find someone and that I should just be discreet about it. Well, maybe I should...

8 erotic things to do with your breasts during sex

Every part of your body need to be fully involved during sex if you are really interested in having a mind-blowing session between the sheets.

Not many people know this, but breasts are the most sensual feature that women posses, but sadly enough, they are hardly used to their full potentials during sex.

This is because men are too busy concentrating on other parts to give the boobs the attention they truly deserve. Here are eight ways to spice things up in the bedroom with your 'girls'.

9 signs you've finally found 'The One'

With friends and relatives getting married here and there, you may  start thinking about your own relationship and whether it'll ever be you walking down that aisle.

It's indeed something worth wondering about. Here are nine signs to help you identify that he's The One.

You don't need to tick them all off, but if you don't recognise any of these, you probably want to re-assess.

6 important wedding planning tips you should know

After the engagement comes the wedding, but planning your big day is mixture of fun, excitement and stress.

You need to be fully prepared physically, emotionally and financially, to be able to plan your wedding successfully without any problems.

As you embark on this interesting journey, here are six important wedding planning tips you need to know:

5 Words To Make Her Fall In Love With You This Valentine & Beyond

Here is a list of Five Secret Words put together by Onyitex to make her fall madly in love with you this valentine and beyond. Click here to go to his blog and see what he said.

7 ways to know she's not interested in you

Recently, we talked about 5 ways to tell if a girl likes you, and how these signs will encourage you to put in more effort into interaction and continue moving towards getting her phone number.

Just as those signs give you the green light to express your feelings to the girl in question, so also, there are some things she might do or say to indicate that she's not interested in you at all.

With that in mind, below are some ways to tell if a girl is not feeling your vibes at all:

Would you tell your spouse past relationships secrets?

Dear Blessing,

I have a problem which I hope your readers could help with some advice. My name is Princess. I got married 2 years ago to a man I dated for only 6 months. We were so much in love that we saw no need to court for a long time.

Guys beware of misguided young girls

There are many young ladies living without proper guide these days and if you are having anything with any of such girls, just know that you are wasting your time as they hardly change and most of them end up lonely and full of regrets. Don't allow such girls infect you with their negativity, move on!

5 signs you're closer to your friends than your spouse

Lunch dates, long chats, and sharing dreams. Do you experience this more with friends than with your spouse?

It’s something to take note of during your marriage. Consider the following five signs that you’re closer to a friend more than a spouse.

5 ways to make your marriage proposal unforgettable

So you're ready to propose and have been stressing over how to make the moment just right. You've watched the YouTube videos of spectacular proposals and heard the stories about how your friends popped the question.

The pressure to make the day of your engagement memorable can be quite nerve-racking, but you don’t need fireworks and flying doves to make your future spouse say yes.

Here are a few alternate ideas on making yours a marriage proposal that the two of you treasure.

FROM A MALE READER OF OBB

 

Dear OBB,

I greet you for your great job, and may God continue to add to your knowledge , He will surely take you to higher level.Amen

My name is Sunday Agunbiade (Not real name) I'm in my early forties, i dated a lady back in the university days, we were in the same department, graduated the same year. This lady got a job before me, and we have planned to marry, but immediately she got a job while i was still struggling to have one, her attitude changed towards me.

7 reasons to date a younger guy

Nigerian women are known to be very respectful to their men especially when he is older. Hence, being with a younger man is not something they'd normally do.

Aside from the respect issue, there's a mild stigma attached to "mature" women dating younger guys, because they are regarded as desperate and so lonely that they would settle for a "child".

But honestly, that was then. Times have changed! Ladies are now stepping out of that old-fashioned school of thought and going for happiness.

If you are a lady and you're still unsure whether being with a younger guy is a good idea or not, then read these interesting points below and think again:

Love and Relationship7 types of love you may experience in life

Even though most people associate love with romance, there are tons of different types of love out there.

Movies usually stick to portraying romantic love, where two people fall head over heels for each another, and end up getting married and having little babies.

However, there are different types of love that you may have already experienced without realizing it:

Would you live in a house built by your wife?

Akinyemi is in a dilemma at the moment; he is in two minds and do not know what to do. The source of his worry stems from the fact that Kike, his wife of 10 years, and mother of his four children, did something he never expected she would do.

She is director in an oil company while he works in a multi-national company but what she earns is five times his salary. Aside the salary, she does some contract jobs and makes quite a huge sum of money.

8 things to do on the morning of your wedding day

Congratulations! Finally, your wedding day has arrived. This is the day you have been waiting for and dreaming about all your life.

When you wake up on the morning of your wedding day, the first thing you realise is that within a few hours you would be married. Just remember this could be a stressful day for you. Only with proper planning, your wedding day can turn out to be perfect.

For any bride, it can be a taxing day with pre-wedding nerves and expectations leading up to the day of the ceremony. Here are a few things you need to consider on the morning of your wedding day.