It
was a sad end between a couple simply identified as Ogene and Rita
(surnames withheld) after Rita confessed to Ogene that she could not
bear him any child because her womb was damaged during abortion when she
was in secondary school in Onitsha town in Anambra State, southeast
Nigeria.
P.M.NEWS gathered that the confession was made five years
after they contracted traditional marriage and wedded in an Anglican
Church in Umuchu, Aguata in Anambra State.
The husband subsequently sent her away for hiding such information from him after their traditional and church marriage.
P.M.NEWS findings revealed that Ogene is a trader at Head Bridge market in Onitsha and resides in Iyiowa Odekpe in Atani Local Government, a few kilometres to Onitsha urban where he plies his trade.
P.M.NEWS findings revealed that Ogene is a trader at Head Bridge market in Onitsha and resides in Iyiowa Odekpe in Atani Local Government, a few kilometres to Onitsha urban where he plies his trade.
Their
relationship started when Ogene met Rita in the area and proposed to
marry her. She accepted and there was formal introduction between the
families.
They did their traditional wedding in Rita’s village in
Imo State and proceeded to Ogene’s village in Umuchu where they did
their church wedding.
According to P.M.NEWS sources, throughout
the period the relationship started and ended in marriage, Rita did not
tell Ogene that she lost her womb due to abortion.
When Rita did
not get pregnant after years of their marriage, they started looking for
medical solution to no avail. This cost Ogene huge sums of money.
After
the failed medical solution, they decided to embark on spiritual
solution which led Rita to meet a pastor to whom she revealed her
predicament on why she was unable to get pregnant, P.M.NEWS was told.
The pastor advised her to embark on fasting and prayers and ask God for forgiveness.
The pastor told her that after the prayers she should go to her husband and confess and ask for forgiveness.
The pastor assured her that with the prayers, her husband would forgive her and would still take her as his wife.
Based on the assurance of the pastor, after the fasting and prayers, Rita went to Ogene and narrated her sad story.
P.M.NEWS
gathered that Rita confessed to Ogene that she got pregnant when she
was in secondary school and to cover the shame, she secretly went for
abortion.
She narrated that during the abortion, there was complication which affected her womb and damaged it.
She
told him that after the abortion, she had not been able to conceive and
she was afraid to tell him before they got married because she did not
want to lose him.
She pleaded for forgiveness and asked him to think and decide her fate in the marriage.
The
embittered husband told her that there was nothing to think concerning
their marriage since she concealed such serious information from him and
subjected him to wasting huge sums of money on medical treatment.
He told her that there was no marriage in the first instance between them because she lied to him.
He asked her to pack her things and leave his house.
He asked her to pack her things and leave his house.
She left dejected because the advice by the pastor was counter-productive.
Ogene subsequently went to the Anglican Church marriage counsel in Awka and sought for the dissolution of the marriage.
And the church granted his request.
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