A Olokunbolab Blessing reader,
Brenda, shared a problem on Morning Teaser about the pressure being put
on her by her family to get married against her wishes.
Brenda
who is 39-years-old, is a career woman who has all it takes to settle
down but she has been unlucky in love and as such, has made up her mind
that she will remain single all her life.
Part of her letter reads:
"My
name is Brenda and I am a 39-year-old career woman. I work in an oil
company at a top level and without boasting, at my age, I have achieved
more than most males in my age group can ever dream of. I have two
duplexes in highbrow areas in Port Harcourt and I have two thriving
businesses.
I have built a house for my
parents in my hometown while all my younger ones have all graduated with
two of them pursuing their Master's degrees in the UK.
The
only snag here is that I have not been successful when it comes to men
and I have gotten to the stage where I do not believe there is anything a
man can do for me again and I have accepted my fate that marriage was
not meant for everybody.
But my problem
now is that my family has been on my neck to get married and they have
literally married me off to more men than I can remember.
The
last time I went to visit them in the village, my father gave me an
ultimatum: to get married before the end of this year or he will not
have anything to do with me again."
This was the poll poser for the day:
Must every woman get married?
And this was the response from voters:
60 % - Yes, marriage makes them complete
40 % - No, it is not compulsory for every woman to get married
So how would you vote?
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