I know some men will argue this, but it is the truth,
hehehe.
LOW SELF ESTEEM
One personality disorder that most people suffer is low self
esteem, hence, men are not exempted from this. Low self esteem is rating
yourself so low while comparing yourself with another person. If some men could
be wise to know what a woman wants, you will not allow self esteem issue to
belittle your real worth. Marriage is not about comparison. If it were to be,
everybody will be looking out for their mate (with the same IQ, temperament,
maturity or understanding) to marry. Men needs to change their perception about
this kind of ladies if love is the drive for the relationship.
Continue below.
LACK OF UNDERSTANDING
When a thing is under-studied, it will be very difficult to
handle it properly. One thing that has been discovered is that men in this
category lack the understanding of how to deal with these kind of ladies. Apart
from the fact that some of them could be disrespectful or proud, women can
easily be handled if you deal with them in knowledge. What makes a man a
player? His ability to deceitfully play with the life of a woman. But if a
woman is well studied and understood properly, there is a way to love her and
she will worship you irrespective of her achievements or status.
FEAR
A key factor that prevents men from marrying educated/rich
ladies is fear. How will I cope with her? How can I fit into her life and
status? Many ‘how’ are the questions most men ask themselves. If your main
reason for marrying her is ‘love’, I mean true love; not for her money or
status, I see no reason why you should be afraid of asking her hand in
marriage. A lot of men are afraid because they felt they will be too expensive
to manage. Money does not make a good marriage but genuine love and a handful
of money.
SOCIETAL BELIEF
There are some things that lack an element of truth which
most people do accept as true. Of such is that wealthy or educated ladies
cannot make a good wife or better mothers. Men are the carrier of this belief,
hence it is untrue. When a woman makes up her mind to be good, nothing can
change that decision except she is treated harshly. Do not join the society to
spread this unbiased belief about women.
Awake the man in you. Don’t be intimidated.
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