I Returned My Engagement Ring To My Fiancé After I Discovered He Cheated

Dear Blessing,

I met the shock of my life recently.

Here goes my story ladun and i want you to please air this for me, i am a regular reader of your blog. I need to seek other people’s opinion please.

I recently got engage to my long time boy friend of 6 years, i met the shock of my life few weeks ago when i found some indecent picture of him and a girl on his phone and laptop.

I went away with my family for christmas and New year, i returned back to Nigeria and discovered my husband to be cheated on me while i was away. I have confronted him about the allegations levied against him, at first he denied it but he later admitted it when i showed him the pictures, he was clueless how i came across the pictures.

I have since returned the engagement ring back to him and i plan to escalate the story until it gets to the media to serve as a lesson for everyone in a relationship. I work in the media and live comfortably, i don't depend on him as he's not better off than me.

My parents were against our relationship at first, they said he looks dodgy and not the best man for me but i Love Him alot and i can't imagine myself with someone else afterall, we dated for 6years before he proposed to me last year Dec just before i went away and we were in the process of planning the wedding for september (2014)

I feel relieved and happy but deep inside me i still like him and want to give him a second chance but have been advised not to, my parents were devastated upon hearing the News.

Sadly, the girl that he cheated on me with lives and schools abroad but comes to Nigeria often. I have done my own research about the girl in question and from what i gathered from reliable sources, she prostitutes herself around both home and abroad and have been seen with mostly Island boys, I live on the island myself. Luckily, my uncle is friends with her parents and i went to report her to her parents for ending my relationship and my future but have been told to overlook it that what the Lord has in stock for me is better. so sad that in our generation, good girls with good parental care tends to be the bad ones.

My advise for every single lady out there is to look properly before they leap, some men are not worth it and girls comes cheap nowadays, love but above all, guard your heart.

I dare need the candid advise of fellow readers and Nigerians in General, i have called it quit with him though.

Miss M